Had the worst experience at Family Coaching. Not sure what is going on with the "coaches" if they are up to par with the word, if they know how to get spiritual guidance from our Heavenly Father or if they are so caught up on their own sin of pride, judgement, anger, self righteousness that they have forgotten to give sympathy/empathy to the people they are supposed to be helping. I had an eerie feeling when I walked in to the building. At first I just attested it to my "hurt". Now mind you, I had been praying to Jesus to help me with the hurt and anxiety when I am around others so they can see His grace and mercy so I have been unable to cry or show any kind of negative emotion when in public, on top of that, I would not bash my husband or anyone that has hurt me in the past, I mean who am I to blame or judge others, I am merely a child of the most High God, I am NOT God! So to make a long story short, in the 3 weeks (1 day a week) I was told that my husband was a deceiver, a manipulator, a con-artist and that I should leave my home. If I didnt understand a bible flip, i was told that it was regarding my husband, not once did any of those pertain to me (per the words of the "coach") Last time I checked, I was going to coaching for me and my hurt and my sins not for his! At the end of the 3rd week, my husband went to the appointment and was told that he could not continue going to be coached due him not writing 3 hurt letters because he physically spoke with 2 of those individuals that he needed to write letters to and apologized to them. He was told that they felt as though he knew the Word too well and was using it to his advantage... if you ask me, they are intimidated because of that. I called and spoke with the director because I wanted to understand why I was able to go to coaching and not him and she yelled at me (literally raised her voice and yelled at me)... She told me that I was with a very rude and disrespectful individual. She then told me she was 65 years old, she was the director for 16 years, that she put $2,000 on the table to coach myself and my husband to give us a bible and to give us tools that we could utilize (which are helpful) and that she used to be a school administrator and could quiet 4,000 students so she knows what rude is. When she finished yelling and her tone went back to normal, I told her that I did not believe her because I have known this man for over 25 years and regardless of sins and faults that he is not rude at all to anyone, I told her that she was yelling at me and that he was a big teddy bear. She cut me off by saying "let me help you out" so I said "okay" she became quiet, when I said "Hello"?, she replied with "yes". I said.. "oh i thought you were going to help me out"? She said "bottom line, we will not be coaching your husband but you can come if you want to". I told her that this would not be beneficial for just myself that we are a team and should be going together. But then I realized that we were going around in circles so I said "Thank you for your time and helping us out and I pray that God blesses you guys and this organization to continue to prosper", she then replied "and I pray God blesses you both", I said, "thank you" and she continued saying, "I pray you two have the marriage you both dreamed about, unlike your other marriages". (I was taken back in shock) and said, "WOW, I am so glad to hear you use sarcasm with your blessings". She said, "it's not sarcasm if it's the truth". So she then hung up on me.
The feeling I got from these individuals were they wanted to play God so bad and when things did not go their way they pushed people away. They were so stuck in their pride and judgmental attitudes that they can not understand when a person is actually healed from a wound or heartache thru the grace and glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. They also could not understand the fact that I could not judge another for their sins when I am a sinner myself...(he whom is without sin cast the first stone). This facility needs to be blessed on a regular basis with all of the "spirits" that go thru that environment. I pray honestly and wholeheartedly that the attitudes change especially for the people that need it.
I would not recommend this place to anyone!
by Kas-E
xxx.xxx.30.1
March 14, 2016