If only this review would allow a negative grade-I had been in my relationship almost 20yrs-in our sessions he completely and utterly sided with my emotionally abusive, passive aggressive husband and praised my husband like a little child when he used 'active listening' in a rote and insincere manner, telling me to let him off the hook because 'he's doing so well'. so if you're looking for marriage or relationship help, do not pay his exorbitant fees and find someone who is actually aligned with BOTH parties!