This guy is a clown! We sought marriage counseling because my husband was having an affair. This guy didn't even tell my husband that he needed to discontinue the affair or any contact with the other woman while we were in counseling. He told me that I had to be patient with my husband while he SLOWLY extracted himself from the affair and began to refocus on our marriage. I was told not to "nag" my husband about his contact with the other woman but to give him time to finalize that relationship. What kind of relationship advice is that? Our marriage survived anyway but this guy offered little help.