He has the potential to be a great therapist, yet his way of blaming the woman is a human draw back. We all have flaws though. He uses word like "You are being disrespectful" toward the female and phrases like, " You need to be more aware of your impulses" when speaking to the male. Notice the difference? Everytime I bring up how I would like to be treated I am told that I am being selfish and when he brings up how he would like to be treated Verser tells me that I am being selfish. I guess if you want a man to treat you right you are seeking the impossible, men are selfish and society encourages them to be selfish and women to be selfless. A woman should ask for nothing but give everything with a smile. Expect nothing and accept any kind of treatment from a man. That is what I have learned.
Jim is a great counselor. Having seen several ineffective counselors before Jim, he was dramatically more effective. He instilled confidence in our ability to works towards an improved situation.
James Verser is a nightmare. First of all, his waiting room smells like a wet dog. He is sexist, nasty and worst of all, completely incompetent. He has no ability to control a session, particularly when things get heated.