5 Ways to Improve Your Intimacy

Married? Love your spouse? Love isn’t always enough to keep a relationship going strong. Having a strong, happy, and healthy relationship requires intimacy. How is your life in the bedroom? Could your sex and intimacy be improved? Discussing the subject with your spouse may make you a bit nervous. Your spouse may wrongly get the impression that they don’t satisfy you anymore. Are you are interested in improving your intimacy? Here are 5 ways to improve your intimacy. 

1 – Date

If you have been married for a while, you may be in the comfort zone. Feeling comfortable, like old friends, is not where you want your relationship to be. To bring a little intimacy back into the marriage go on a date. Go dancing, go for a walk on the beach, do the things you did when you were first dating. Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, a little roll reversal might come in handy. Guys, chivalry still makes the lady’s heart beat a little faster. Romance is not dead

2 – Show Romantic Gestures

When it comes to "wooing," in a relationship, often women think that men should do it, but wooing is equal opportunity activity. Remember how it was when you first met and love bloomed? The small romantic gestures have a way of bringing the passion back. Simple things like a gentle touch of the hands, giving a hug or a kiss with out reason, and simple words like "I love you" will stir the romantic fires. A little wooing will make for "wooohooing!"

3 – Be Sexy and Seductive

When the marriage gets to that comfort zone, sex and intimacy may seem like a distant memory. Sex may seem more like a chore, a responsibility or even work. To dispel these feelings, be sexy and seductive. It may not feel comfortable at first to be seductive. With a little practice you will feel very comfortable being sexy. There are many ways to be sexy; wear sexy revealing clothes, show a little extra skin, do a striptease, undress your partner, snuggle next to them on the couch with lots of body contact, or give a sensual massage. You will be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.

4 – Be Spontaneous

Don’t wait for Saturday night, initiate sex on different days and at different times and in different places. Start with a little foreplay or jump right into the intercourse, just do it. Your partner will like the surprise.

5 – Offer to Experiment In the Bedroom

If sex seems routine or even boring, you may want to suggest that you experiment in the bedroom.. Try a new position or several, try some toys. Talk with your spouse to see if they have a suggestion. Experimentation in the bedroom doesn’t mean doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. But, trying a new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.

These are just 5 things you might try, there are more. Be open, be honest and be sexy, you will both love it.